Compare yourself

Why do i prefer  this a fair click ?

It expresses lots of emotions of frozen kids.

Since i was in Afghanistan in refugee camp and bunch of kids came to me, with ideas that i am here to give them something for winter such as clothes and food, but unfortunately i was there just to do survey for university project.

These kids with much hopes started to show me their living condition and it was very distressing, and the joy in their eyes hit me so hard, then i decided at least i can do something for them, so they asked me to click their frozen hands  and it will be enough to convey the message.

At the present time the entire world is constantly comparing themselves, it has became so important to show others that " I am Happy " rather ourselves.

Showing others that i am content take lots of efforts compare to ourselves. 

Most of us spend our lives to make others happy, those who became happy were not mine and those who were mine didn't become happy.

In to this endless race, only way to win , is to lose it.

 The finishing line would be, if you want to compare your situation then do it with people less fortunate that is when you will taste contentment, and nothing is sweeter than being content. We will be able to see how happy and fortune we are specially at this present days.

Door to peace

A second interpretation of World ( Dunya ) from my perspective by using these characters which i will explain.

1.chasing lion 

2.Deep well

3.Long Rope

4.One black rat and one white rat

5.Beneath of deep well an alligator 

6. Somewhere in deep well a door which leads to a safe house

7. Honey beehive 

So i ´m hanging in deep well on a long rope and right in front of me is a huge honey beehive with sweetest honey,  honestly every bite we take from it make us delusional about what actually happing around.

Definition 

1.Chasing lion (Death, the fact that always chasing us until gets us)

2.Deep well (Our lifespan)

3.Long Rope (Our age that we are hanging on it in this deep well)

4.One black rat and one white rat (Black rat is night and white rat is day which are eating the rope slowly)

5.Beneath of deep well an alligator (Our last destination hell if we don´t find the door)

6. Somewhere in deep well a door which leads to a safe house ( Our last destination heaven if we find this door)

7. Honey beehive ( Eventually the today ´s life) that full of delusion, sweet lies which keep us so  busy consuming it that make us forget the fact that death is chasing us in deep well, we are hanging, at same time the day and night rats are eating the rope which is our lifespan, so before i fall to beneath i need to use the rope to find the door to end up somewhere peace.

The question that i always ask myself is what is more important, the slavery of our ego, lust, greed, hate,power, injustice or actual door which lead to peace without harming anyone?

Feeling of unhappiness

A feeling of unhappiness or jealousy, it sound really dramatic but i believe that nowadays it have seem to be usual, not because we are evil but we doubt the tune of our ability, to be assure i will add that we compare our self with those who have been blessed with fortunes, fortune of someone which might look so luxurious from outside, which remind me of a line " everyone can see that how successful i have become but none can see my feet's abscess ".

So if i measure myself with some who is in good status then me, i will feel depressed and unhappy which can change it to jealousy but i if do it other-way around in a good sense, it will lend me a hand to feel gratitude. 

I feel sure each one experienced these feelings but as i always say we are not white or black, we are gray.

White as in all time positive, happy, grateful, soft-spoken.

 Black as in all time negative, sad, ungrateful, harsh.

Gray as in we are kind of in between which inferior in stage of mind where in all occasions we remind our self that i might be in good circumstances than someone who is not able to walk, speak or sightless, this kind of compare is healthy, it educate us in great amount and lead us to being grateful and so on to from feeling of unhappiness to HAPPY.   

C is Between B and D

 Life is a journey between B and D,

B is Birth and D is Death, but C is in between? what is C?

C is choice, a Choice to suffer or not to suffer.

why most of time when we get hurt in life no matter what it is, career, relationship, love or anything why the pain is not going away even if it happened long time ago.

I have been asked once that why pain never finishes. I believe the question is wrong, the question should be,

 when the pains will get reduce, the answer is when you stop touching the wound every day, the wound will keep getting fresh and it will keep hurting you.

Now you have the (C) choice that do you want to suffer or not to suffer, feel hurt or not to get hurt.

For example, if someone from China or any other country that I don't understand the language comes and start insulting me, what will I do? Umm ... I don't understand him, so I won't mind him maybe he is saying I have good hair style or asking me something.

The conclusion is that will I take/accept his word and allow myself to get insulted.

Inspired from Life.

 

 

Villain VS Hero

Most Important part of any Movie or Story is the Villain, which is always stronger then our Hero but still at end Villain Loses.

but today i  try to go a bit deep,

lately i Watched a Movie called Joker, in which a man who is quite caring and friendly, innocent but under some pressure and torture of society, job and family.

i will stop here so i can  explain  the point,

In real life the flashback of a Hero and a Villain are very same like the sadness, struggles and so on but
the only thing which is different is the way they both react to society and situations.

Their are  two factors,
first Forgiving and
second is revenge

Easy one is to take revenge so the villain chooses it and react ,
but the one which is brighter and make one a hero is forgive and to  makes a decision that i won't allow the circumstances to change my reality because we are all hero of our own stories, being a hero is tough to become that why most End up being Villain.
a line which fits in this i don't know the name of one who wrote
"I am not what happened to me I am what i have choose to become"

the moment of deciding is when the bad things start happening,
but  it is time to choose the route,
like most people who goes through Heart break , divorce , financial crisis.
they can have that  moment when they decide i will work hard on  my self  to come out of this because they won't allow the situations to dictate their now and future.

the biggest answer for them is not to hurts themselves and society, it is to forgive and get out of their reach.

Forgiving is glory of Hero.
Revenge is sign of weakness or Villain.

Inspired 
 



    

Memories

I have come across with a couple, who were deeply,  madly in love for five year with tons of lovely memories and  some small fight in which  both of them hurried to say sorry to erase the gape,

But Dark clouds have touched the five years of  wonderful Moments, while he was sharing his emotions to me he ended up asking WHY WHY WHY.
My friend he was telling me how hard is for him to cope with the memories that had together, he close the eyes and feel the freshness of her and in minutes when he open eyes all he have is Nothing because they had a lot of time spend together and tons of moments that he thought he can carry on with them when ever she leave him but now the memories has been hard for him to handle.
Memories are only thing that  can bring smile in our face but if two individuals own it and in a time one leave, then it can be more than a burden.

same just a mile second before the angel of death comes and snatch the soul out of the cold body, that person is able to see is all life in that one mile second in fast forward all he have to say is I WISH I GET A CHANCE.
This is the words which my friend spits  everyday,.
 Overall memories are beautiful and ugly but if you still have someone in your life with whom you can create beautiful memories and with whom you can reduce the ugly memories so you are LUCKY so don’t wait for that moment that you repeat those word (i wish) .
Express and Don’t let them go
Because.....
Life is a Book that you didn’t read the other pages yet.

Dunya (world)

Dunya (World) is a question about lose, disappointment, being let down, seeking  something and comeback empty handed.
It’s like what happens when you try to dig in concrete with bare hands.
Not only you will comeback with nothing but break your fingers in process.
I learned this from trying again and again because nature of this Dunya(world) is a Temporary attachment as place where people are with you today and leave or die tomorrow.
And this is the reality which hurts because is goes against our nature so we as humans strive for what is perfect and permanent which is not possible.

Nothing happens without purpose not even broken hearts or Pain.

Pain: it self is a pointer to our attachments which makes us cry.
I thought love for this Dunya (world) is only being attached to materials so i was not attached to Materials so it won’t apply on me but i was attached to humans, Emotions and Moments which are also part of Dunya (world) so  i was wrong.

Live in Dunya, World, Life  but don’t get attached to anything or any Emotion or moments because it is Not perfect and permanent.