Feeling of unhappiness

A feeling of unhappiness or jealousy, it sound really dramatic but i believe that nowadays it have seem to be usual, not because we are evil but we doubt the tune of our ability, to be assure i will add that we compare our self with those who have been blessed with fortunes, fortune of someone which might look so luxurious from outside, which remind me of a line " everyone can see that how successful i have become but none can see my feet's abscess ".

So if i measure myself with some who is in good status then me, i will feel depressed and unhappy which can change it to jealousy but i if do it other-way around in a good sense, it will lend me a hand to feel gratitude. 

I feel sure each one experienced these feelings but as i always say we are not white or black, we are gray.

White as in all time positive, happy, grateful, soft-spoken.

 Black as in all time negative, sad, ungrateful, harsh.

Gray as in we are kind of in between which inferior in stage of mind where in all occasions we remind our self that i might be in good circumstances than someone who is not able to walk, speak or sightless, this kind of compare is healthy, it educate us in great amount and lead us to being grateful and so on to from feeling of unhappiness to HAPPY.   

C is Between B and D

 Life is a journey between B and D,

B is Birth and D is Death, but C is in between? what is C?

C is choice, a Choice to suffer or not to suffer.

why most of time when we get hurt in life no matter what it is, career, relationship, love or anything why the pain is not going away even if it happened long time ago.

I have been asked once that why pain never finishes. I believe the question is wrong, the question should be,

 when the pains will get reduce, the answer is when you stop touching the wound every day, the wound will keep getting fresh and it will keep hurting you.

Now you have the (C) choice that do you want to suffer or not to suffer, feel hurt or not to get hurt.

For example, if someone from China or any other country that I don't understand the language comes and start insulting me, what will I do? Umm ... I don't understand him, so I won't mind him maybe he is saying I have good hair style or asking me something.

The conclusion is that will I take/accept his word and allow myself to get insulted.

Inspired from Life.

 

 

Villain VS Hero

Most Important part of any Movie or Story is the Villain, which is always stronger then our Hero but still at end Villain Loses.

but today i  try to go a bit deep,

lately i Watched a Movie called Joker, in which a man who is quite caring and friendly, innocent but under some pressure and torture of society, job and family.

i will stop here so i can  explain  the point,

In real life the flashback of a Hero and a Villain are very same like the sadness, struggles and so on but
the only thing which is different is the way they both react to society and situations.

Their are  two factors,
first Forgiving and
second is revenge

Easy one is to take revenge so the villain chooses it and react ,
but the one which is brighter and make one a hero is forgive and to  makes a decision that i won't allow the circumstances to change my reality because we are all hero of our own stories, being a hero is tough to become that why most End up being Villain.
a line which fits in this i don't know the name of one who wrote
"I am not what happened to me I am what i have choose to become"

the moment of deciding is when the bad things start happening,
but  it is time to choose the route,
like most people who goes through Heart break , divorce , financial crisis.
they can have that  moment when they decide i will work hard on  my self  to come out of this because they won't allow the situations to dictate their now and future.

the biggest answer for them is not to hurts themselves and society, it is to forgive and get out of their reach.

Forgiving is glory of Hero.
Revenge is sign of weakness or Villain.

Inspired 
 



    

Memories

I have come across with a couple, who were deeply,  madly in love for five year with tons of lovely memories and  some small fight in which  both of them hurried to say sorry to erase the gape,

But Dark clouds have touched the five years of  wonderful Moments, while he was sharing his emotions to me he ended up asking WHY WHY WHY.
My friend he was telling me how hard is for him to cope with the memories that had together, he close the eyes and feel the freshness of her and in minutes when he open eyes all he have is Nothing because they had a lot of time spend together and tons of moments that he thought he can carry on with them when ever she leave him but now the memories has been hard for him to handle.
Memories are only thing that  can bring smile in our face but if two individuals own it and in a time one leave, then it can be more than a burden.

same just a mile second before the angel of death comes and snatch the soul out of the cold body, that person is able to see is all life in that one mile second in fast forward all he have to say is I WISH I GET A CHANCE.
This is the words which my friend spits  everyday,.
 Overall memories are beautiful and ugly but if you still have someone in your life with whom you can create beautiful memories and with whom you can reduce the ugly memories so you are LUCKY so don’t wait for that moment that you repeat those word (i wish) .
Express and Don’t let them go
Because.....
Life is a Book that you didn’t read the other pages yet.

Dunya (world)

Dunya (World) is a question about lose, disappointment, being let down, seeking  something and comeback empty handed.
It’s like what happens when you try to dig in concrete with bare hands.
Not only you will comeback with nothing but break your fingers in process.
I learned this from trying again and again because nature of this Dunya(world) is a Temporary attachment as place where people are with you today and leave or die tomorrow.
And this is the reality which hurts because is goes against our nature so we as humans strive for what is perfect and permanent which is not possible.

Nothing happens without purpose not even broken hearts or Pain.

Pain: it self is a pointer to our attachments which makes us cry.
I thought love for this Dunya (world) is only being attached to materials so i was not attached to Materials so it won’t apply on me but i was attached to humans, Emotions and Moments which are also part of Dunya (world) so  i was wrong.

Live in Dunya, World, Life  but don’t get attached to anything or any Emotion or moments because it is Not perfect and permanent.

Focus on haves

Human gets complete with three things.

1:  "Mind" from which we think

2: "Heart"  from which we feel

3:  "Body" form which we act

The mind: person can not be healthy and happy unless  manage the way of the thinking,

Focus is One of the most important thing in human 's happiness ,  their is the concept of what ever you focus on, it grows or expand  and that is why we find some kind people  that are problem focused,

It means that in any given situation the will pick up the problem and that will become their focal point.

And that leads to anxiety and they can't not cope with  their minds,

Reason: if they focus on problems, It grows and they will start to become bigger and bigger then the  bigger it gets they will be surrounded with problems and the can become frustrated.

 

Explaining: Two boys in a picture  up and down.

At the top a boy with a  piece of cake and happy 😊 And beaming for holding only one piece,

Then below him another boy and he is holding entire cake only one "piece" missing and he is sad 😔,

Now the boy on top is happy because he's  focus is on what he have which is a slice of cake and the one in bottom is sad because he's focus is in what he doesn't have which is only one piece.

Now the boy in bottom has more cake and still he is sad because his focus is different,

The one in the top his focus is on what he have so he is happy. So the concept of happiness focus on what and who do you have with you.     Inspired 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

CONCEPT OF LOVE

Most underrated word "LOVE"
Love actually decreased percentage of heart attack  in women and thanks for their tears,
And increases amount of sad and dramatic Facebook post on men's wall in which they share such love emojis that even I start missing their EXs 😜.
At school  which teaches people how to suffer and act victimized,
A love which get changed trough  time is only lust for controlling emotionally which the best feeling in some point of views.
Love is pure  but now a days it is as complicated as my maths Homework the more you go deep to solve never get solved.
As one of my friends told me he was excited that he found true love and he feel butterflies inside him and I told him how easy for you to find true love in my case when I wake up in morning I can't even find my pant 😄😄.
I'm not against love but what I feel most people get confused between love and like and this confusion build  another confusion.
Love is about sacrificing, more giving then taking, patience and most important not changeable.
It's more feeling less expressing and most important it doesn't require a day so I am totally against Valentine's Day because it belongs to those who need a reminder and the love that requires reminder not worth celebrating.