Focus on haves

Human gets complete with three things.

1:  "Mind" from which we think

2: "Heart"  from which we feel

3:  "Body" form which we act

The mind: person can not be healthy and happy unless  manage the way of the thinking,

Focus is One of the most important thing in human 's happiness ,  their is the concept of what ever you focus on, it grows or expand  and that is why we find some kind people  that are problem focused,

It means that in any given situation the will pick up the problem and that will become their focal point.

And that leads to anxiety and they can't not cope with  their minds,

Reason: if they focus on problems, It grows and they will start to become bigger and bigger then the  bigger it gets they will be surrounded with problems and the can become frustrated.

 

Explaining: Two boys in a picture  up and down.

At the top a boy with a  piece of cake and happy 😊 And beaming for holding only one piece,

Then below him another boy and he is holding entire cake only one "piece" missing and he is sad 😔,

Now the boy on top is happy because he's  focus is on what he have which is a slice of cake and the one in bottom is sad because he's focus is in what he doesn't have which is only one piece.

Now the boy in bottom has more cake and still he is sad because his focus is different,

The one in the top his focus is on what he have so he is happy. So the concept of happiness focus on what and who do you have with you.     Inspired 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

CONCEPT OF LOVE

Most underrated word "LOVE"
Love actually decreased percentage of heart attack  in women and thanks for their tears,
And increases amount of sad and dramatic Facebook post on men's wall in which they share such love emojis that even I start missing their EXs 😜.
At school  which teaches people how to suffer and act victimized,
A love which get changed trough  time is only lust for controlling emotionally which the best feeling in some point of views.
Love is pure  but now a days it is as complicated as my maths Homework the more you go deep to solve never get solved.
As one of my friends told me he was excited that he found true love and he feel butterflies inside him and I told him how easy for you to find true love in my case when I wake up in morning I can't even find my pant 😄😄.
I'm not against love but what I feel most people get confused between love and like and this confusion build  another confusion.
Love is about sacrificing, more giving then taking, patience and most important not changeable.
It's more feeling less expressing and most important it doesn't require a day so I am totally against Valentine's Day because it belongs to those who need a reminder and the love that requires reminder not worth celebrating.

Angels on Earth

life is amazingly beautiful  that is why everyone is so attached to it, with the fact that human  in this life is surrounded with extra amount of problems.
That is why God gifted mankind three angles.
First angle comes as DAUGHTER.
The light of any house is daughter, compared to sons actually daughters only once who can understand the pain behind fake smile of her parents and she will be the one who can save her parents from Fire which might come to their souls.
Second angel comes as WIFE,
The one who will complete the husband and that why she is called sheld of her husband,
In any successful marriage wife plays role of peace, any husband will feel peace after having a look at his wife.
Third angel is the most Beautiful word In entire universe "Mother".
One who is expert in multitasking, Mother is somone that happened once and it won't repeat again.
In this stage for this angle the whole paradise comes under her feet. Actually  God put paradise to Mother 's hands and just to hold her kids she put it down.
We might forget her but she never forgets us.

So in my point of view we can't  specifically only one day for the. Because our whole life is surrounded  with these three angles, our days should start to wish them and end to thank them.
We have to respect them if she is in stage of DAUGHTER, WIFE OR MOTHER.
IF YOU HAVE THEM THANKS THEM AND EXPRESS YOUR LOVE TO THEM.

Nothing is black Nothing is white Eveything is Grey

Facts that humans are srounded with Uncontrollably desires, unhealthy competition, failure, Drug, sadness and end with Depression.
They are all connected to each other and actually we are in a big war within our Mind, human beings have strong mind if once get control over it then can change world, but if the mind start controlling us then it's start of our end,
 Don't let your mind own you it is you who should own the mind.
Basically life is full of problems if we deal with each other, and problems are like an awful weather. Standing under rain will get me wet
Weather is not in my control but I can build shelter.
Secondly if your facing failure, it's doesn't mean you won't succeed, actually getting fail make you work hard and value your small success and every successful person has overcome lots of failure yeah worst fact that no one take about their failure but success.
Desires should be in our control otherwise it can convert to greed, in this stage just try to meet and experience  people who are living in worst conditions but still greatful.
Sadnesses and depression comes with overthinking, the concept is clear if you want to get out of sadness so just accept the truth and move on don't stick.
 In conclusion
Don't Ruin happiness with worry
Don't Ruin mind  with pessimism
Don't Ruin success with deception
Don't Ruin today with yesterday
Life is short don't shorten with sadness and worry.

USE BUT DON'T ABUSE

Technology  made the life so much easy, that is what everyone says these days.

Totally disagree,
I agree it made life  easy in certain ways, and we should not ignore it has also effect a lot.
Because  once an idiot create technology now a days technology is actually creating idiots,
Fact that we can't ignore that technology really took people so far from people, such us some examples that we see daily.
Start counting from home up to work everyone  is looking down to see the hight of sky which is not able.
We didn't just forget way of living life but we became slave of the technology, we have smallest information about world but we actually don't know who is living in our neighborhood.
Technology has connect the world. True but technology also disconnect humans from families, actual life because our phones become our oxygen mask without phones hard to breathe.
Try to survive a single day without your phone then you can see the change.

being mute (typing) heads down.
" Swipe to find match  "  but no love.
Free call but don't have anything to say.
Lots of information but no one to reads.
Moments save in phones memory but our system memories card is empty.
In short technology (phones) has made us effortless,

We are not in contact with our old friends so Why do we start adding  new friends ?
We have became prisoners of our phone that is why we called it cell phone.

Don't regret and don't become prisoners of your phones use in good way.

Our Misconception

XXXTentacion a singer who just died.
These days when we get words of these (young) celebrities dying, a lot of us get so upset because we think  " they're too young to go".
But we are all under misconception that we're all going to live up to 100 years old.
If you were supposed to live until the age of 20 & you're 19 years old,that's 95 % of your life.
If you're 18 years old, then that is 90 % of your life.
Remember death doesn't care how old are you!
Death doesn't care about what race you are , death is not racist, it won't see your skin color,
Death will just come and take you when you time is over.
This should motivate us when we see people like this (XXXTentacion) should motivate us to not procrastinate.
To not waste any time. And to be good human beings and to draw closeness to our creator, family, friends,wife, husband.
most importantly do not procrastinate!

Reminds me of a close friend of mine who used to say "I will " and that later just because of the ego which was controlling him,
He never expressed his feelings towards his creator, family, friends.
Used to say " tomorrow " but he didn't knew life is full of surprises, and he can't make up to tomorrow.
Who knows their might be no tomorrow, to say ( sorry,love you,forgive me,forgive you,)
Don't let your ego kill your or anyone 's innocence.
spread love we are already srounded  by hate, competition, jealous, greed.
Before death touchs you complete your tasks. 😊😊😊😊😊😊

Beautiful view

Today i was walking around the lake to find a place, and to observe some thoughts from silent nature, each drop of rain that touch the sea.
With lots of questions i close my eyes took a deep breath and i see the sky under my feet in the water reflected.
after looking for long  in water i realized that why we are trying to find beauty in everything somtimes our veiws makes it beautiful.
 The real beauty is inside of all but instead of expressing we act like slave of society,
Sometimes hard to understand our souls language and suddenly we start thinking about other view how they will react, which make us same like them
be original, don't waste your time to be perfect because being perfect is impossible
the more you try the more society expect.

Think big but try to live in small moments these small moments makes life full of beautiful memories,
Don't ever wait for big things to show Up your celebrations.
there is no tomorrow,
So live your life today with love and humble.
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