Memories

I have come across with a couple, who were deeply,  madly in love for five year with tons of lovely memories and  some small fight in which  both of them hurried to say sorry to erase the gape,

But Dark clouds have touched the five years of  wonderful Moments, while he was sharing his emotions to me he ended up asking WHY WHY WHY.
My friend he was telling me how hard is for him to cope with the memories that had together, he close the eyes and feel the freshness of her and in minutes when he open eyes all he have is Nothing because they had a lot of time spend together and tons of moments that he thought he can carry on with them when ever she leave him but now the memories has been hard for him to handle.
Memories are only thing that  can bring smile in our face but if two individuals own it and in a time one leave, then it can be more than a burden.

same just a mile second before the angel of death comes and snatch the soul out of the cold body, that person is able to see is all life in that one mile second in fast forward all he have to say is I WISH I GET A CHANCE.
This is the words which my friend spits  everyday,.
 Overall memories are beautiful and ugly but if you still have someone in your life with whom you can create beautiful memories and with whom you can reduce the ugly memories so you are LUCKY so don’t wait for that moment that you repeat those word (i wish) .
Express and Don’t let them go
Because.....
Life is a Book that you didn’t read the other pages yet.

Dunya (world)

Dunya (World) is a question about lose, disappointment, being let down, seeking  something and comeback empty handed.
It’s like what happens when you try to dig in concrete with bare hands.
Not only you will comeback with nothing but break your fingers in process.
I learned this from trying again and again because nature of this Dunya(world) is a Temporary attachment as place where people are with you today and leave or die tomorrow.
And this is the reality which hurts because is goes against our nature so we as humans strive for what is perfect and permanent which is not possible.

Nothing happens without purpose not even broken hearts or Pain.

Pain: it self is a pointer to our attachments which makes us cry.
I thought love for this Dunya (world) is only being attached to materials so i was not attached to Materials so it won’t apply on me but i was attached to humans, Emotions and Moments which are also part of Dunya (world) so  i was wrong.

Live in Dunya, World, Life  but don’t get attached to anything or any Emotion or moments because it is Not perfect and permanent.

Focus on haves

Human gets complete with three things.

1:  "Mind" from which we think

2: "Heart"  from which we feel

3:  "Body" form which we act

The mind: person can not be healthy and happy unless  manage the way of the thinking,

Focus is One of the most important thing in human 's happiness ,  their is the concept of what ever you focus on, it grows or expand  and that is why we find some kind people  that are problem focused,

It means that in any given situation the will pick up the problem and that will become their focal point.

And that leads to anxiety and they can't not cope with  their minds,

Reason: if they focus on problems, It grows and they will start to become bigger and bigger then the  bigger it gets they will be surrounded with problems and the can become frustrated.

 

Explaining: Two boys in a picture  up and down.

At the top a boy with a  piece of cake and happy 😊 And beaming for holding only one piece,

Then below him another boy and he is holding entire cake only one "piece" missing and he is sad 😔,

Now the boy on top is happy because he's  focus is on what he have which is a slice of cake and the one in bottom is sad because he's focus is in what he doesn't have which is only one piece.

Now the boy in bottom has more cake and still he is sad because his focus is different,

The one in the top his focus is on what he have so he is happy. So the concept of happiness focus on what and who do you have with you.     Inspired 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

CONCEPT OF LOVE

Most underrated word "LOVE"
Love actually decreased percentage of heart attack  in women and thanks for their tears,
And increases amount of sad and dramatic Facebook post on men's wall in which they share such love emojis that even I start missing their EXs 😜.
At school  which teaches people how to suffer and act victimized,
A love which get changed trough  time is only lust for controlling emotionally which the best feeling in some point of views.
Love is pure  but now a days it is as complicated as my maths Homework the more you go deep to solve never get solved.
As one of my friends told me he was excited that he found true love and he feel butterflies inside him and I told him how easy for you to find true love in my case when I wake up in morning I can't even find my pant 😄😄.
I'm not against love but what I feel most people get confused between love and like and this confusion build  another confusion.
Love is about sacrificing, more giving then taking, patience and most important not changeable.
It's more feeling less expressing and most important it doesn't require a day so I am totally against Valentine's Day because it belongs to those who need a reminder and the love that requires reminder not worth celebrating.

Angels on Earth

life is amazingly beautiful  that is why everyone is so attached to it, with the fact that human  in this life is surrounded with extra amount of problems.
That is why God gifted mankind three angles.
First angle comes as DAUGHTER.
The light of any house is daughter, compared to sons actually daughters only once who can understand the pain behind fake smile of her parents and she will be the one who can save her parents from Fire which might come to their souls.
Second angel comes as WIFE,
The one who will complete the husband and that why she is called sheld of her husband,
In any successful marriage wife plays role of peace, any husband will feel peace after having a look at his wife.
Third angel is the most Beautiful word In entire universe "Mother".
One who is expert in multitasking, Mother is somone that happened once and it won't repeat again.
In this stage for this angle the whole paradise comes under her feet. Actually  God put paradise to Mother 's hands and just to hold her kids she put it down.
We might forget her but she never forgets us.

So in my point of view we can't  specifically only one day for the. Because our whole life is surrounded  with these three angles, our days should start to wish them and end to thank them.
We have to respect them if she is in stage of DAUGHTER, WIFE OR MOTHER.
IF YOU HAVE THEM THANKS THEM AND EXPRESS YOUR LOVE TO THEM.

Nothing is black Nothing is white Eveything is Grey

Facts that humans are srounded with Uncontrollably desires, unhealthy competition, failure, Drug, sadness and end with Depression.
They are all connected to each other and actually we are in a big war within our Mind, human beings have strong mind if once get control over it then can change world, but if the mind start controlling us then it's start of our end,
 Don't let your mind own you it is you who should own the mind.
Basically life is full of problems if we deal with each other, and problems are like an awful weather. Standing under rain will get me wet
Weather is not in my control but I can build shelter.
Secondly if your facing failure, it's doesn't mean you won't succeed, actually getting fail make you work hard and value your small success and every successful person has overcome lots of failure yeah worst fact that no one take about their failure but success.
Desires should be in our control otherwise it can convert to greed, in this stage just try to meet and experience  people who are living in worst conditions but still greatful.
Sadnesses and depression comes with overthinking, the concept is clear if you want to get out of sadness so just accept the truth and move on don't stick.
 In conclusion
Don't Ruin happiness with worry
Don't Ruin mind  with pessimism
Don't Ruin success with deception
Don't Ruin today with yesterday
Life is short don't shorten with sadness and worry.

USE BUT DON'T ABUSE

Technology  made the life so much easy, that is what everyone says these days.

Totally disagree,
I agree it made life  easy in certain ways, and we should not ignore it has also effect a lot.
Because  once an idiot create technology now a days technology is actually creating idiots,
Fact that we can't ignore that technology really took people so far from people, such us some examples that we see daily.
Start counting from home up to work everyone  is looking down to see the hight of sky which is not able.
We didn't just forget way of living life but we became slave of the technology, we have smallest information about world but we actually don't know who is living in our neighborhood.
Technology has connect the world. True but technology also disconnect humans from families, actual life because our phones become our oxygen mask without phones hard to breathe.
Try to survive a single day without your phone then you can see the change.

being mute (typing) heads down.
" Swipe to find match  "  but no love.
Free call but don't have anything to say.
Lots of information but no one to reads.
Moments save in phones memory but our system memories card is empty.
In short technology (phones) has made us effortless,

We are not in contact with our old friends so Why do we start adding  new friends ?
We have became prisoners of our phone that is why we called it cell phone.

Don't regret and don't become prisoners of your phones use in good way.